Resources For Bisexuals
Books, graphic novels, publications, and podcasts that will help you get multiple perspectives on being Bi.
Books on Bisexuality & Gender
Bisexuality/Pansexuality (being attracted to multiple genders) and gender non-conformity frequently overlap.
Scroll through this selection we’ve compiled, and feel free to reach out if you want to add a book that helped you!
Publications
Articles on coming out as bisexual and Bi culture. The first two articles feature Bconnected! 🙂

For the Members of Bisexual Group BConnected Colorado, Community Is Revolutionary
How a bisexual group called BConnected Colorado is, well, connecting queer Coloradans.

Amid ‘unicorn hunters’ and stereotypes, here’s how bisexual people are finding support
How a bisexual
Bconnected is creating a Bi-culture in Colorado.

The ‘Double Closet’: Why Some Bisexual People Struggle With Mental Health
Even as more people identify as bisexual, persistent stigmas remain, with many not feeling fully accepted by their communities.

I Don’t Know Who Needs to Hear This, but You Are Bi Enough
After telling someone I’m bi, I can’t tell you the number of times I’ve heard, “You know, I’ve never met a bisexual person.” I always reply the same way: “You’ve never met an out bisexual person.”

“Why Do I Need to Come Out if Straight People Don’t Have To?” Divergent Perspectives on the Necessity of Self-Disclosure Among Bisexual Women.
Coming out has historically been an important yet often very challenging process for LGBTQI + individuals to no longer conceal their sexual and/or gender identity.

You Need Help: Why Be Out As Bisexual?
Howdy! I’m an out and proud bisexual woman. A good friend of mine who identifies as lesbian recently asked me why bi+ folx don’t just stay closeted and in hetero relationships to avoid the prejudice, pain, and judgement that so often comes with being gay. I was a bit taken aback by this question.

Why sexual identities shifted during the pandemic
With time to contemplate and reassess, some people have begun exploring new sexual identities and other desires “beyond the binary”.

How Can I Be My Authentic Self While Navigating Bi-Erasure and Biphobia? There are so, so many different ways to be queer, and to be bisexual specifically. For some people, it feels right to be, as you put it, “quietly bi” or queer, and some people, like you, really want to make a splash about coming out and put their queer identity front and centre in their lives.

Three Bisexuals in Their 30s on Coming Out While in Long Term, Monogamous Relationships
For Bisexuality Visibility Day, I want to specifically address a question that bi+ people get all the time: “Why did you come out if you’re already in a monogamous relationship?”
Bisexual Podcasts
A few favorite podcasts to help you on your journey of coming out as bisexual.
Books on Non Monogamy
Many Bi people face the monogamy issue at one point or another after coming out. Non-Monogamy is extremely nuanced and takes patience and a commitment to understanding yourself, your partner(s), and everyone’s communication style. No one book has all the answers, but hopefully, you’ll find guidance and inspiration in one of the many books on the subject.










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