Autistic and queer. That’s what I call myself, and that’s what they call me. I’m no longer bound by pressure to prioritize being one or the other – I’m both. Being both has clearly come with its own challenges on top of those associated with being “just” autistic or “just” queer; my identity is intersectional.
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What does it mean to be bisexual? You might have noticed that the words “Bisexual” and “Queer” pop up together a lot around here. That’s not just because we love a good word duo, but because they represent the heart and soul of Bconnected. We’re like the ultimate Venn diagram where everyone under the rainbow
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We’re thrilled to announce that Bconnected Colorado has officially become a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization! This is a huge milestone for our community, and it opens up so many exciting possibilities for growth, support, and connection. What does this mean for you? It means we’re more committed than ever to building a vibrant, inclusive community for
🎉 Exciting News: Bconnected Colorado is Now a Nonprofit! Read More »
We’re excited to introduce our brand-new program: Skillshares! Think of it as the ultimate talent show, but without the pressure of a spotlight, and with way more useful stuff. Whether you’re a DIY terrarium enthusiast, a home chef with a killer recipe, a car maintenance whiz, or you’ve got a knack for turning a mediocre
The Loneliness Epidemic: We’re Not Meant to Do Life Alone Let’s face it—loneliness is at an all-time high, and it’s affecting all of us. Studies have shown that more than 60% of Americans report feeling lonely on a regular basis. That’s a lot of people, and chances are, you or someone you know is feeling
The Power of Community: Why Bconnected Is More Important Than Ever Read More »
Dear Bconnected Community, When I first started Bconnected back in 2016, I’ll be honest—I was just trying to find people like me. I was married and newly out as bi, and I felt like I was navigating uncharted waters with very few people to relate to. I needed a space where I could connect with
Letter from your hostess, Three Read More »
Bisexual community matters. So, you’ve stumbled across Bconnected, and now you’re wondering, “Is this the bisexual community I’m looking for?” Well, if you’re anywhere under the LGBTQAI+ rainbow—or just an ally who wants to accompany your queer person to a great potluck—then the short answer is yes! But let’s break it down a bit more,
Who Should Join Bconnected? (Spoiler: Probably You!) Read More »
“My parents are freaking out because I’m not married yet, and I don’t think either they or I can stand it anymore,” they sighed. “My parents are so scared I’m going to miss my childbearing years. They’re forcing me to get married.” Their eyes suddenly grew darker, and they looked down to gaze into their tea. Without looking at me, they continued, “I can’t do it. I have got to get out of here. I have no choice but to leave. I mean, I want to leave China.”
Trapped between Layers of Trauma: Growing Up Queer and Uyghur in China Read More »
I wanted so badly in that moment to say I was bi. I had already looked up that word in the English-Chinese dictionary months before. The official translation was shuangxinglian, literally translating as “double sex love.” I didn’t know the slang for it yet.
Queer Culture in China Read More »
I can now say with certainty that I am happy that my personal truth won out, and that I am now able to accept who I am and live a life more aligned with the burning I had felt all along in my soul.
Picking Up The Clues to My Identity Read More »
I didn’t know how to communicate to others that it felt natural to be infatuated with anyone who was smart or magical.
Becoming and Being a BConnected Story Read More »
I am so lucky to be my lesbian lover’s exception.
I’m My Lesbian Lover’s Exception Read More »
Growing up in a small, rural town in Colorado during the 80’s and 90’s meant that I had very little real life exposure to anything queer. Despite that, when I reminisce about my youth, I knew I was different by the time I was 13. I suppose I could thank Anne Rice and Anais Nin
Life Is A Process of Becoming, A Combination of States We Have To Go Through. Read More »
I was immersing myself in a Muslim community for the first time. I was still learning the basics of what it meant to eat Halal and fast during Ramadan. I soon learned what people were saying. Like never before in my life, my gender was a cornerstone in most social interactions.
FINDING MYSELF IN CHINA Read More »
